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Mesa Fama's avatar

Wow. I have never seen someone distill those plot lines down in such a beautiful way. I see now how it applies to not only writing but also across my life. Thank you as always Jane, for giving us all much to think about through sharing such a brilliant essay from Lauren.

Alice 💚

Jane Ratcliffe's avatar

I'm so glad you enjoyed it, Mesa! I agree, I was also pondering the plot lines of my life! ❤️

Imola's avatar

Beautiful!! In other words, life, relationships and identity are complex. I couldn’t agree more! Your novel sounds intriguing. I would love to write “Alice”, but I am in Canada :( I very much enjoyed reading this essay and am inspired by it! Thank you.

Jane Ratcliffe's avatar

I'm so glad you enjoyed it, Imola!! I will double check on the shipping to Canada. If it's possible, I'll add you to the giveaway!

Imola's avatar

Thank you Jane!

Jillian Hess's avatar

Those graphs!! Alice:)

Jane Ratcliffe's avatar

They are sooooo you!! Glad you enjoyed them!

Anne Greer McSpadden's avatar

As a thrice divorced family therapist, now long singled, your statement about doing one’s work on oneself before marrying is so honest and insightful and immeasurably helpful. We should share this with our children.

Jane Ratcliffe's avatar

Oh, I love this! I agree! Glad you enjoyed Lauren's beautiful essay!

Cindy's avatar

Jane, this is a wonderful piece! I have been backlogged, so remiss in keeping up--and it's absolutely terrific to see the important work you're doing. BRAVO!

Jane Ratcliffe's avatar

Oh, thank you, Cindy! That means so much! And I'm really happy you enjoyed it!!

Debbie's avatar

My favorite line: “the stories of our relationships form the essence of our lives”….poetic, vital, and the very heart of the story. Well done!

I’m in California, hope shipping is available here…Alice

Jane Ratcliffe's avatar

I’m so glad you enjoyed it, Debbie! Alas, the giveaway happened on July 22nd. 🌸

Elise Becher's avatar

What a thoroughly engaging and informative essay. I loved loved loved the graphs and the thoughtful weaving of ideas about content and context and structure and language. All of it. Thank you, Jane, for offering this. And for “introducing” me to Lauren and her work. Also, Alice.😊

Jane Ratcliffe's avatar

Hi Elise! I'm so glad you enjoyed the essay!

Alyssa Tsagong's avatar

LOVE THESE GRAPHS.

Alice

Jane Ratcliffe's avatar

They're pretty wonderful!

Delilah Isabel's avatar

Absolutely beautiful.

Alice <3

Jane Ratcliffe's avatar

I’m so glad you enjoyed it, Delilah!

Michelle Dowd's avatar

Grief, yes. I need to read this book.

Alice ❤️

Michelle Dowd's avatar

Grief, yes. I need to read this book.

Alice ❤️

Michelle Dowd's avatar

Grief, yes.

Alice ❤️

HeleneCoyle's avatar

Alice.

Paulla Rich Estes (she/her)'s avatar

I appreciate these three arcs as I’m writing something about adultery with ultimate, long-fought reconciliation. I’d love to read “Alice.”

Jane Ratcliffe's avatar

I’m glad it was helpful, Paulla! Your book sounds intriguing!

Trish McDonald's avatar

"In moments such as these, the veil of reality is momentarily lifted. Something tender and true breaks through." The veil, such a beautiful essay.

Jane Ratcliffe's avatar

I love that quote! I’m glad you enjoyed the essay, Trish!

Anne Rath's avatar

Love the graphs and the plots. Alice