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Mesa Fama's avatar

Hooray Laura!! I loved the wisdom imparted “it’s not personal”. What a reframing of behavior! Being the psychology nerd that I am, this really spoke to me ♥️♥️

I’ve followed Laura for years on social media 😊 and love learning about my favorite people!!

Thank you, Jane 🖤

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Jane Ratcliffe's avatar

I'm so glad, Mesa! I loved that insight, as well. The older I get, the easier it is for me to actually believe it!! ♥️

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Laura McKowen's avatar

Hi Mesa! :)

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Mesa Fama's avatar

Hi Laura!! :) :) :)

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Allison Taylor Conway's avatar

What a beautiful interview, thank you so much, Jane and Laura. The emphasis on honesty in relationships hits home for me especially. I think we often underestimate how very hard this is to do, especially being new to it in recovery. Laura's work has helped me tremendously in this regard. Thank heavens for brave writers. :)

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Jane Ratcliffe's avatar

Oh, Allison, that's lovely. I agree, honesty is vital. I'm so glad you enjoyed the interview!

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Mo Issa's avatar

Laura's relationship with books feels like a lifeline, not just an escape. There’s something so raw and beautiful about that kind of connection to words and to self. Thanks for sharing this—our messiest moments often lead us to the most clarity.

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Jane Ratcliffe's avatar

Beautifully put, Mo! And I agree!

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Anne Kadet's avatar

Loved the anecdote about the lady’s response to the drunkee voicemail. That is real kindness!

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Jane Ratcliffe's avatar

I agree!!

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Mary Beth Spray's avatar

I love you questions, Jane.

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Jane Ratcliffe's avatar

Oh, thank you, Mary Beth! That means so much!

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Heather Johnson Durocher's avatar

Laura is one of my most favorite people I don’t personally know. I love her writing and honesty. I hope to one day be as brave as she is on the page. Thank you for this interview today, Jane. ❤️

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Jane Ratcliffe's avatar

Ooooh, that's lovely! I feel the same! I'm glad you enjoyed the interview, Heather! ❤️

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Laura McKowen's avatar

Thank you Heather!

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Brandon Hampton's avatar

Thank you for your transparency and vulnerability. It has a healing effect on me.

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Jane Ratcliffe's avatar

That makes me so happy, Brandon! And I'm not surprised! I'm glad you enjoyed it!

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Laura McKowen's avatar

❤️

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Kate's avatar

I wish I could upload a photo of my black and white cat!! And that kindness story came at a good time for me. Reminded me that if I want to be helpful in a currently challenging situation, I need to stay neutral and loving.

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Jane Ratcliffe's avatar

So true, Kate, isn't it. But not always so easy! Sorry you're in a challenging situation, friend! And I wish you could upload photos of your sweet kitty, as well!

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Laura McKowen's avatar

❤️

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Logan Steiner's avatar

An interview like a clear morning sky. Direct and honest and beautiful without pretense. A wonderful way to start the week—thanks, Laura and Jane!

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Jane Ratcliffe's avatar

Oh, I'm so glad you enjoyed it, Logan! And I agree with your beautiful description of Laura's beautiful words!

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Laura McKowen's avatar

Thanks Logan :)

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Dr Vicki Connop's avatar

'Honesty will always bring me closer to love' - I love that. Honesty is very much a guiding principle for me too ❤️

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Jane Ratcliffe's avatar

Such a beautiful quote! And I'm not surprised honesty is one of your guiding principles! ❤️

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