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j.e. moyer, LPC's avatar

Lots to share here. I'm a licensed clinician who's experienced intergenerational mental health challenges. Losing my mom at 61 – she was raised by her grandmother– and my younger brother's struggle with schizoaffective disorder, leading to his passing at 56, has given me some insight.

One major takeaway is the value of solid scientific research. While personal stories are interesting, they can't be the whole foundation. You can't just slap those experiences on everyone – it's more complex. I've leaned more into evidence-based practices in my work.

Oddly enough, I find myself using the term "recovery" in my professional language. Likely due to my own journey dealing with growing up with an alcoholic parent. That led me back to school, 30 years ago, where I earned a master's degree in psychology in education, and eventually became a psychotherapist.

My relationship with writing has been quite a journey. Unlike my mother, reading wasn't a source of comfort for me. It was a burden. And writing? Well, that was like trying to juggle on a unicycle. (I can’t do either of those two thing.) When I first started therapy, I used drawing to express myself, and later around 2000, I picked up photography to capture and sort out thoughts and feelings.

Words were like wild horses that needed taming. Putting my thoughts into writing? Imagine trying to eat flying spaghetti. Messy. But things have improved. I'm in a much better place today, embracing recovery. It’s been a methodical process of growth and development.

In a nutshell, I'm a perpetual learner, always a "work in progress." Life keeps teaching me lessons, and I'm open to them. As I keep moving forward, I'm dedicated to evidence-based approaches and continuous learning.

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Dr Vicki Connop's avatar

Great interview. I resonate with so much of this. I absolutely believe mental health recovery is possible and agree that sleep, food and life routines can be a key part. Unfortunately the pharmaceutical industry has led the mental health field for too long. I do believe medication has its place, but I also see lots of people stuck on drugs that are just numbing things rather than healing things and keeping them stuck in a loop. Love the openess, honesty and vulnerability here. Thank you ❤️

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