Ridiculously large cocktail ring with a sweatshirt? I’d do that--if I only had the ring. What I do have, and proudly wear with anything, is a vaguely Mayan, slightly tarnished silver necklace my mother bought in Mexico around 1966. Nothing like it can be found today. It’s not flashy or particularly valuable but it has a talismanic beauty. My mother chose this necklace for herself but it is me. I am never tempted by necklaces in stores because no other necklace can approach the magic of this one. And now off to read Caroline’s essay...
Absolute love jewelry, makes every outfit uniquely you. My wedding ring was my mother-in-laws, it’s fabulous. I also have some vintage Chanel clip on earrings I “stole” from my aunt. Always 2 books, if not 3, 1 fun 1 for study. Excited to read Caroline’s work. 🤗
'I’m grateful for the relationships that weren’t built to last, the jobs that didn’t pan out, the rejections and mistakes and missteps that led to this moment. It helps me to think that maybe one day I’ll be grateful for the things that feel difficult right now.' Love this and couldn't agree more 😊
I have a silver bangle / cuff that I always wear on my left wrist (I'm left handed so wear my watch on my right wrist). If I'm not wearing it I feel off-balance. It's just the right size and weight and it was a 30th birthday present from my sister. I have other bracelets, bangles and cuffs but this is the one I reach for every day.
I completely understand. I have jewelry like that, as well. I recently had to have one of rings repaired and I felt so out of sorts for that week! Off balance is exactly right!
Everyone is people! ❤️ So good! And great to see Caroline here.
Looking through photos the other day reminded me that I used to wear “big” jewelry--necklaces often and wondered why I stopped that. Reading this interview gave me a little nudge. Maybe it’s time to pull out some of those old pieces, see what part of me they might reconnect me to.
Love this reminder to pay attention to all the small kindnesses that surround us --and to take dance breaks! Thanks Caroline and Jane!
Yes, I agree. And yes, to dance breaks!! When next I'm in NYC, we'll have to all take one together!
I'd LOVE that!
Ridiculously large cocktail ring with a sweatshirt? I’d do that--if I only had the ring. What I do have, and proudly wear with anything, is a vaguely Mayan, slightly tarnished silver necklace my mother bought in Mexico around 1966. Nothing like it can be found today. It’s not flashy or particularly valuable but it has a talismanic beauty. My mother chose this necklace for herself but it is me. I am never tempted by necklaces in stores because no other necklace can approach the magic of this one. And now off to read Caroline’s essay...
Ooooh, that sounds wonderful, Rona!! How beautiful. I know, I love the RLC ring and the sweatshirt. Perfect!
Absolute love jewelry, makes every outfit uniquely you. My wedding ring was my mother-in-laws, it’s fabulous. I also have some vintage Chanel clip on earrings I “stole” from my aunt. Always 2 books, if not 3, 1 fun 1 for study. Excited to read Caroline’s work. 🤗
Those all sound so beautiful, Vas. I love jewelry that has a meaningful history. And, yes, to reading multiple books simultaneously!
I've been following Caroline's work for a while now and I truly always enjoy reading her work.
Her writing is extraordinary. I always feel so lucky when I get to read something new!
Same! And I always enjoy your interviews, as well!
Oh, thank you so much! That means a lot!
'I’m grateful for the relationships that weren’t built to last, the jobs that didn’t pan out, the rejections and mistakes and missteps that led to this moment. It helps me to think that maybe one day I’ll be grateful for the things that feel difficult right now.' Love this and couldn't agree more 😊
I love that quote, too! 🌸
I have a silver bangle / cuff that I always wear on my left wrist (I'm left handed so wear my watch on my right wrist). If I'm not wearing it I feel off-balance. It's just the right size and weight and it was a 30th birthday present from my sister. I have other bracelets, bangles and cuffs but this is the one I reach for every day.
I completely understand. I have jewelry like that, as well. I recently had to have one of rings repaired and I felt so out of sorts for that week! Off balance is exactly right!
Everyone is people! ❤️ So good! And great to see Caroline here.
Looking through photos the other day reminded me that I used to wear “big” jewelry--necklaces often and wondered why I stopped that. Reading this interview gave me a little nudge. Maybe it’s time to pull out some of those old pieces, see what part of me they might reconnect me to.
Thanks for another great interview.
That’s such a great line! And I’d say, yes, time to pull out those chunky gems!
So glad you enjoyed it!
Dance beaks are awesome! Kind and tawdry...To meld the sacred and profane...you might enjoy this piece: https://aliciakwon.substack.com/p/sex-holding-contradictions
So glad you enjoyed it! I really love this one! 🌸